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In Our Minds This Fall

Here I am in a quiet place watching the leaves fall. It is a fall now. Things are changing, and this is a difficult time for many people.

But here I am thinking… a big thing that is so often forgotten. We create with our minds everything that is.

It is very easy to fall off that knowing like the leaves…. but it is up to us to remind ourselves that really it is all in our mind. What we think about and how we interpret – imagine, visualize is what is, what comes into our reality. A vision to not focus on what is, but on what you want. What you think about becomes your reality.

To create something comes from our thoughts. How we think about it, how we can visualize it, who can help me, how I can create it. Think about it, see something you like, and know that you can create it.

All of us have different things, or topics where we worry, and different visions that we want to create. I just want to remind you of this most powerful statement, everything is in our minds.

Our thoughts are so powerful, and all is within.

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Patience

This time in the Universe in general there is a lot of confusion. The universe is pushing us to change, and direct our lives differently than before.

We want to do something and it is delayed, or not happening, or on hold… etc. So this is a blog post about being patient, and a reminder that the movie or story of our life starts in our heads. For each one of us, no matter the situation, there is some area where we feel like we don’t know what to do anymore…

So be patient. Sometimes the vision that you see, or the things you want most, need time to unfold. For now we can sit and visualize, and let go of our wanting to control how and when. Not thinking about it too much. Waiting for things to come our way. In this time actually the universe is teaching us how to be patient.

If you start feeling anxious about what you want and why it is not here, know that the only solution is to let it go, and focus on feeling good. Focus on something else, and only have a knowing that it is on its way to you. It’s okay, and all is coming. So trust that.

Be patient.

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As Things Change With the Corona Virus (Again)

There is so much uncertainty – many countries don’t know whether to open. Many schools don’t know if children should attend. Many people are having second thoughts about what has been going on both personal and globally.

In general – the Universe is taking a spiritual step. We are going in a different direction. Things will change. How societies function is changing.

As we try to reopen and return to routines, we realize it is not the same. People like to cling to what used to work. Usually the old routines feel safe and feel comfortable. There is anxiety, and fear about the unknown.

However, this is a reminder that its okay. Growth is okay. People need to go through this period. As a whole and individually. It is a release. A way to clear what no longer was sustainable. A reminder to release, adapt, let go, and know that it is best to trust that all of this happening, and all will be okay.

This might be a restarting period for many things that could be better, and routines that needed to be adjusted. Find a way to think for the bettering of your life, and the bettering of our world.

Also know that you are not alone in feeling any uncertainty, it is finding the courage in this to take that step forward.

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To Wear a Mask/Not to Wear a Mask – Corona Confusion

I wanted to write and say that no matter your opinion on this topic, the most important thing is to respect other people.

It does not matter if you believe in the mask or not, or fear the virus or not. This is a reminder to remind yourself first off before anything else – to intend to respect others. To feel into other people. To remember that you might be fine but another may be hurting.

When your mind starts to question the Corona Virus, or the simple thought of wearing a mask or not wearing one, bring your attention back to feeling into other people’s frequency.

The fear that might be around, the ages of others, the health of others. To understand that nobody is complete.

We never know what the other person is going through. What is going on today in their life.

All of us with our character we come with our lack, our insecurity, our disconnect. When we care for each other, understand each other, respect each other. This is how we can bring the world back together. Bring brokenness back together. Respect each other and begin to heal the world.

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How Do You Stop Fearing the Unknown?

The fear comes from places in which you don’t yet know. So it is important to understand that fear in general comes from the unknown.

The fearing that comes into our thoughts comes in through the places where we experience lack and are incomplete.

Usually it comes in through a place in which we feel we are missing something. Those areas of life where we believe we aren’t good enough, or have been let down, not supported.

It is natural to have those moments.

However, You don’t need to think about the future with fear – it is okay not to know what is going to happen.

To stop fear at any moment return from lack to presence. Bring yourself back to the now. Live the now.

Look around and see things that are good. Today is good. Tomorrow will be good. If any challenge comes, it will be okay.

You will take it when you know it, but for now leave the unknown and return to the moment.

Return to what is now. Where you are. What you appreciate. It is okay not to know.

Let go of expectation. Of feeling sorry. Of feeling sad. Accept where you are. The fear and the feeling of lack will ease. It is okay to remind yourself and bring yourself back, we are all carrying around this fear but we all also have the capability to carry ease, acceptance, and a trust of ourselves.

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Something Bigger Than Me

It is always good to have a belief and knowing that something exists beyond you.

The creator to me is something complete. It is like a candle with a light, and how much you share the light it still stays the same.

You can name it whatever you like as “the creator” is not something physical, it is something complete. I strive to be the same as the creator … it is a force that you cannot necessarily describe, it is beyond us and whatever you feel you can name it – the universe, a god, creation.

I use it as an advisor to see how I can complete myself. How do I tune into that energy? I share, accept the way I am now, be present.

The creator to me is like a father, a teacher, not physically but an energy and a force. It is a feeling. Not something you can imagine, or see, or describe.

In my book I write about the Creator in us all. taking note on the fact that “the concept of the creator has an innately religious aura to it. I want to note that when I say “Creator”, I simply mean the source of all our worlds energy, all of its light, the beginning of all thought and action.

“The Creator is like a father, or a teacher. It is something that is more than myself, someone I can talk to and that I know will always listen. The creator is always there, always listening, and it answers with messages and clues sent in the form of other people, thoughts, and ideas. The Creator protects me, and it is pure energy.”

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A Good Friend

A reminder to surround yourself with people who elevate us.

To have a peaceful life, we must feel elevated, have people that can lift us up, near these kinds of people we feel strong and not weak.

Feelings to avoid comparison, control, feeling weak or less than a person.

Feel comfortable in their presence, feel able to be ourselves, we want to feel welcome, we want to feel comfortable to speak our mind.

Push you to be better, give you compliments, encourage you, someone that really listens to you, doesn’t interfere.

To listen, to see the other from their shoes.

In my book I write about relationships and want to remind you that all friendships and relationships are here to teach us something. A reflection of something in us.

“We learn from every experience. Each experience is there to serve you on your journey to becoming complete, and therefore there are no good or bad experiences, only experiences to learn from.” The way we feel is how we learn and let in what feels good. Elevated. We can then see what is serving us and what we may need to let go of.

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Why Do We Need to Know About the Sign of the Zodiac?

The Zodiac signs are en excellent tool to use to help us understand the relationships in our lives. The signs are guides to help us know what qualities come naturally. Libras, for example, tend to be indecisive. No matter if you fully believe in astrology or not, learning the signs of the people in your life will help you.

Your Zodiac Sign or “Star Sign” is a reflection of the position of the sun when you were born. Each one of the signs in the Zodiac has something we can learn, and something that can help us understand the other people so we know how to be with them and what comes naturally to them.

We can also use the Zodiac sign to understand the month and the season we are in. For example, we are now entering Virgo Season. Below is a recap on the Virgo energy coming our way, and a brief reminder of a trait each sign carries below. It is great to understand the Zodiac and use it as a way to deeper understand each relationship in our lives and where we are throughout the year.

Pisces Virgo Season Recap:

* Virgos tend to be attentive and caring, and determined to work hard, which can also cause them to be critical of situations, of other people, and of themselves.

One major pattern for Virgos is therefore, to learn to accept, respect and embrace things and people as they are, instead of judging and criticizing them for what they are not.

This month can give us the motivation to do the things we know will move us forward spiritually, even if we may find it difficult, knowing that no matter how far we have fallen or how far we have gone, we can always find our way back to our source and embrace what is.

How do we find out what we must change? A good place to start is to look at the areas where we have had the most difficulty. This may be the way we communicate, what we say or do not say, what we do or do not do. So take a closer look. The answers will surely expose themselves. There is no need to worry about this month’s discovery process – we can happily take it upon ourselves, knowing that our work really does affect the big picture.

When we build or renovate a house, we make a list of all the things that need to be done and saved and all the things that need to be taken out. This week, I suggest we make a similar list of our lives so we can take advantage of the cosmic opportunity before us.

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When There is Lack in Our Lives

Each one of us comes to this planet with some kind of lack. So remember it is natural if you feel stuck in some way, like you don’t have enough in a category of life.

When we have lack it is when we don’t believe in ourselves 100%. Strengths and weaknesses in our lives… with your strengths you don’t have doubt about those, you aren’t scared to do them or talk about them… things that come to you naturally or that you feel confident in. When we feel fear or lack or not good enough it is because we don’t believe in ourselves in that area.

So what do we do when we feel that lack? Try to tune into the same energy that you have in an area of strength, bring that energy towards your lack or to a weakness. Try to get the feeling you feel when you focus on something you have a lot of, something that is working well, try to overlap that into your weakness or your fear.

For example if you are great at baking deserts and not cooking, bring that confidence into cooking and it erases the fear. To believe in yourself, find more desire in that area, find more passion.

Take it step by step. This is our journey. The lack area is part of our journey.

We need to try until we get strong. Our weaknesses take longer than our strengths because it is part of our journey and growth.

The area that you lack means you have to continue and try, when you recognize that you have lack it means you just have to work on it, and not fear it. Try to go towards that area. This is our journey. It takes time.

When you recognize this, the fear starts to leave you. As soon as you admit or notice your fear it starts to leave you.

Trying and failing is part of your journey and the reason you are here in this lifetime. This is how you build that belief in yourself. You then have to do that again and again. Different ways, and failure but continuous trying in different ways.. That is the work… and why we are here.

Try to not think about the large subjects. But think about what is right in front of you. Scared to speak up, scared to face the day, scared to go outside, scared to swim, to face the little fears of the day to day and let confidence from what you don’t fear pour into those areas.

When we feel we are enough, and happy with who we are, more comes in. So tune into that strong energy that is always there. When you experience lack, at the other end of the spectrum is confidence and abundance. Your journey is meant to have that contrast.

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Fearing the Future in this Time

We cannot look back at what it was, this what I am doing now. A reminder that the fear comes from the comparison of what was, or wanting it to be different from what is.

A lot of people are scared about the future and confused. You are not alone.

People used to live with a feeling of control in their life. They thought they had some sense of control over their choices and lives. What has happened now is that everything in this planet has changed… and there is a sense of loss of control, and unknown, and what we did before we cannot do since the world has changed.

We don’t have control. We never really do. It is not in our hands, we just need to decide on what action we can take, and how we look at things. Today I am doing this and that. Decide you are doing something. Control is an illusion, you have to let it go. Every person has a lack in some area in their life. This is the area that you need to build upon.

When you believe in yourself things are going to happen that feel good, and open up for you. It is the fear that is a sign you don’t yet believe in yourself.

So a reminder to let it be and believe in yourself.

Create a new mantra that you tell yourself. Positive “I am” confirmations such as I am enough, or I love and care for myself.

In that feeling of confusion there can be hope, people need to change with that.

Try something else just even if temporary to get your mind off the fear. People need to understand that the times have changed and it might be for the better, it’s just the transition that feels choppy in the meantime. There are two ways to look at fear, one way where it is confusing and you feel stuck, and the other way to realize the challenge and then use it to grow.. to change what needs to be changed within you.

Try to live in the moment, in the now. Not about the future, what is good for this time? What can I do in this time? Move on even if it is slowly. Always do something. Try things, start to do something whatever you wanted to do and now you have more time to do. Just don’t stay in a place and wait, blaming outside factors that are outside your control. Living this way creates more fear.

What do if you are afraid? To lose your job, to find a job.

Why I am scared? Try to examine the details. What do you think you can do differently? Your mind gets focused, and actions you can take now begin to unfold.

You have fear in the area that you feel you don’t have control in, the area that you have a lack in. Because you don’t believe in yourself in that area. Try to believe in yourself in that area and send yourself love.